The Ultimate Guide to Erotic Cunnilingus Massage for Couples
Nov, 16 2023
Understanding Erotic Cunnilingus Massage
Who would have thought when I first started writing about relationships and couple's enrichment, I'd ever be sitting down to pen down my thoughts and expertise in the art of oral pleasure? Well, here I am, Clyde, ready to guide you through the intricacies of erotic cunnilingus massage. A topic that raises eyebrows, sparks curiosity and brings radiant smiles to faces, behind closed doors of course.
Cunnilingus massage, quite eloquently put, involves using the mouth, lips, tongue, and sometimes even hands, to stimulate a woman's genital region for her pleasure. If done right, it can strengthen your bond as a couple, as well as give you a more enriched and fulfilling sex life. And no, it's not all about what you may be thinking. It's an art form, a way to express exquisite love that we, as adults, should appreciate and perfect.
Benefitting from Cunnilingus Massage
Before you ask, yes, even as the provider, the benefits of cunnilingus massage to you are manifold. For starters, it brings a sense of accomplishment, knowing you're doing something that pleases your significant other. Then, the intimacy, connection, and trust you build whilst performing cunnilingus can rekindle hidden fires and ignite a passion that you may have thought extinct.
What's more, as you explore your partner's body, you will learn more about her desires, her likes, and dislikes. This knowledge will ultimately help you become an expert at satisfying and keeping your woman happy. Needless to say, it's a great way to spice things up in the bedroom!
Preparing for the Maneuver
Now, here is the funny part. Having kids, Arthur and Lily always seem to choose the most inappropriate moments to need something, and it's often when their old man is steering into uncharted territory. If it doesn't involve building Lego towers, explaining the theory of cosmology or nursing a bruised knee, I'm good to go.
So, before you begin your venture into cunnilingus massage, ensure you have enough privacy. Find a comfortable and relaxing space, preferably a clean and cozy bedroom. You can set the mood with some soft lights and perhaps a bit of sensual music in the background. Remember, it's not a wham bam affair, but rather like a symphony, or an extended edition of your favourite movie. Take your time and enjoy each phase of the journey.
The Right Time to Dive In
Knowing when to start cunnilingus is essential, and the secret lies in foreplay. Just a heads up, jumping straight down there the moment you get an intimate moment probably won't do you any favours. Foreplay is like the warm-up before the significant game. It kick-starts the senses, builds anticipation and ensures that both parties are in the right frame of mind.
I always say, ‘Well begun is half done,’ and it certainly holds true here. Start slow, with a gentle touch or a passionate kiss. Gradually move on to the neck, ears, and other erogenous zones. Only once you sense that your partner is ready for the next phase, should you proceed to the erotic play of cunnilingus.
Mastering the Art of Cunnilingus Massage
To really ace it, think of it as writing but with your tongue. Start off slow and soft with light strokes, then progress to tracing letters or shapes, as though you are writing an erotic novel. It's a fun way to keep things varied and ensure you don't jab or make it predictable. And don't forget to use your fingers, the combination can be highly stimulating.
The old saying goes ‘Practice makes perfect’. That's definitely true here but there's a twist. No two women are the same, so what worked for a previous partner might not work for your current one. Open, honest communication will help you figure out what your partner likes and doesn’t like. It's an evolving process, one that gets better with experience, repeated attempts, and of course, an open mind and heart.
After the Climax
Once you master this form of oral pleasure, you'll find that the climax can be more intense and satisfying than conventional intercourse. But don't rush off at the first signs of climax. Be gentle and cool down before breaking off the contact. In the afterglow, cuddles and words of affection will further intensify your bond as a couple.
You see, love and intimate relationships are like a grand puzzle. The pieces fit together in unique ways, forming a beautiful image of shared moments, consensual experiences, and sweet satisfaction. Cunnilingus massage is just one of those exquisite pieces that, when placed in the right way, can help you solve the puzzle even more beautifully.
Paperbacks, Workshops, and More
While I certainly hope my guide has been enlightening, if you'd like to delve deeper into the subject of erotic cunnilingus massage, there are numerous resources out there. Don't shy away from consulting paperbacks, watching educational videos, or even attending in-person or virtual workshops to hone your prowess.
You can even turn this into a bonding moment with your partner by learning together, exploring desires, and creating a joint understanding of what your intimate moments should look like. And through this all, remember, a good partner is one that is open, communicative, and prioritises their partner's pleasure equally, if not more than their own.